tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post7822307149875111120..comments2023-04-03T04:00:20.248-07:00Comments on figuring it out...: one of THOSE conversations...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post-56134822713945086432010-01-18T06:46:57.966-08:002010-01-18T06:46:57.966-08:00Had one with my ex right before I moved. Only thin...Had one with my ex right before I moved. Only thing is that I think he wasn't even in a place to get how much he was jabbing...that makes it hard too.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17584248569655542892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post-83230500395594367582010-01-12T10:19:00.545-08:002010-01-12T10:19:00.545-08:00That is one thing I LOVE about couples therapy. I ...That is one thing I LOVE about couples therapy. I get to help people process those layers and layers and history and missteps. It is also one thing that is incredibly frustrating about these conversations IRL. With all the conversation rules we have, we're not allowed to do much slowed-way-down process talk with feelings and a third party involved.adamfhttp://shenpawarrior.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post-10285354030025810602010-01-12T09:20:35.094-08:002010-01-12T09:20:35.094-08:00Tgaps- thank you for that link, and the notes. I&...Tgaps- thank you for that link, and the notes. I'll have to think about if/how I will do the 15 min re-living processing suggestion, but very insightful and intriguing. Thank you.galen dara https://www.blogger.com/profile/02987352194018060353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post-70827592055070536752010-01-12T09:05:49.633-08:002010-01-12T09:05:49.633-08:00In response to twitter: "have you ever had on...In response to twitter: "have you ever had one of these conversations? http://bit.ly/87nPbM (if so, have any advice?)"<br /><br />Not so much in how to deal with the conversation directly but one method to lessen/eliminate the uncomfortable/hurt triggers experienced. My version/rewrite of the class I sat in is below. Maybe it applies or maybe I'm associating aspects of your Tgapshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01277067357645222417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4319139334819650146.post-5666829085876120892010-01-12T07:54:33.214-08:002010-01-12T07:54:33.214-08:00My sister, every time.My sister, every time.The Numismatisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15087097629745984272noreply@blogger.com